RELATIONSHIPS

How To Touch A Man To Drive Him Wild 

As you can probably guess, there are ways to touch a man in a 'more than platonic' way.  

New Relationship - A little touch can quite literally communicate what a dozen conversations cannot say.  Remember that when you touch him, you have to also communicate intent, a state of mind, and a feeling of vulnerability.  In other words, letting him know that you like him and that it's safe if he pursues a more romantic conversation.

Sometimes all you have to do, besides the touch, is to maintain steady eye contact and a smile, so he will sense that you are comfortable him and am very interested  in getting to know him better.  Try these techniques and you might notice a change in your love life.

Rekindling A Relationship - Without passion in a marriage, the two of you are just roommates.  After years of marriage, kids, work, cooking, cleaning, it's easy to let things slide until the spark is gone.  I''ve heard many stories where the relationship is ending and one is desperately wanting to 'fix' things, but for the other person, they have emotionally stepped out a long time ago and in their mind, it's over.  Of course, communication and commitment are required on both sides, so if you're here because you're trying to re-spark something when your partner is done, it is NOT your fault that you are here.  In fact, it more on them if they felt things going awry and didn't openly communicate how they felt.  The fact that YOU are here shows that you care enough about your relationship and your man.

First, there are more subtle ways to touch him to initiate a relationship and develop the relationship to something progressive.

LOWER BACK

There's something very erotic about familiarly placing your hand in the small of his back.  Linger there, touch him and then gently slide your hand further down, almost to the crack of his butt.  It's a very subtle move that can be done while you hug, dance, or even pose for a picture with others.  The great thing about it is you can always play dumb and pretend as if your hand accidentally slipped and went a little too low.  But he'll be so alarmed, and intrigued at your subtle sexual side, he'll be thinking about it.

THE CHEST

Touching a man's chest is a great move, and it's hard to believe more women don't try it on guys they secretly crush on.  Shoulders and arms are easily misconstrued as friend-zone spots.  But when you touch a man's chest, you are going beyond the comfort zone, a place where no "friend" should ever enter without some sexual tension.

THE ELBOW OR PALM

If touching him so obviously intimidates you, then take a step back and try his arm/hand area.  Specifically, the soft fleshy area of his inner elbow OR his palm.  Both spots feel very sensitive to the touch, almost ticklish, but not quite.  More like, if an attractive person touches this spot - and lingers there, preferably with some eye contact, it puts him in an almost "altered state", meaning hold his attention captive.

He can't not feel something more than friendship, an auto-response of pleasure and attraction, knowing full well you're stimulating his sense of touch on purpose.

Holding hands is one thing.  But that could also be a friendly gesture.  However, touching the palm or elbow and giving him that subtle stroking pleasure, is a bold move he can't ignore.

THE THIGHS

Finally, if you're both sitting somewhere (at a table or theatre, etc.) there's nothing quite like the eye-opening "hand to the thigh" routine which can be as subtle or as sexy as you want it to be.  You can start subtly by putting your hand on his knee, then slowly moving up the thigh, to emphasize the point.  Or you can simply linger your hand at his inner thigh.  But this move is not too subtle... he's bound to want to take you home at this point!

NEXT LEVEL

When it's time for sex, now it's time to give him the best sex of his life.  An entire book could be written on technique and strategy.  Let's focus on the tight "spots" that are going to rock his world and make you the master of the seductive arts.

THE PERINEUM AND SCROTUM

The perineum is that often neglected spot in between the genitals and anus, and it just so happens to be a patch of sensitive skin, one that's very superficially near to the prostate gland.  Very gently pressing on this area, or just rubbing it with rhythmic strokes, can intensify a man's orgasm.

THE SQUEEZE

Try to grab another part of him during sex, preferably his other reachable erogenous zones, as passion increases.  Sex and climax feels twice as god when you use your hands, whether clutching onto his chest, his stomach (or right below), his buttocks, or even his knees or calves as you ride him.  He will think you're a wildcat!

THE WEAKER POINTS OF THE PENIS

While it's easy to be distracted by that elephant's trunk in the room, let's try to remember that pleasuring a man's penis is only as good as what areas you're paying attention to.

He may like some attention paid to his whole shaft, but he is going to enjoy being stimulated around three specific points: the frenulum, the underside of the penis where the head meets the shaft, the lower base of the penis where the shaft begins, and the glans or head, which has 4,000 nerve endings all on its' own!

Knowing these pressure points is very important not only for his pleasure but for your convenience, to be able to give him greater pleasure because you know what he responds to even better than he knows!

Bonus points if he's uncircumcised because the foreskin also has additional nerve endings.

It's easy to see that touch is the secret weapon you need to get a man interested in you, or even to escalate the sexual tension that might already exist between new lovers.